{"id":2721,"date":"2013-05-13T18:35:58","date_gmt":"2013-05-13T23:35:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bytebot.net\/blog\/?p=2721"},"modified":"2013-05-13T18:36:00","modified_gmt":"2013-05-13T23:36:00","slug":"reflections-on-getting-older","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bytebot.net\/blog\/archives\/2013\/05\/13\/reflections-on-getting-older","title":{"rendered":"Reflections on getting older"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a title=\"I just got a homemade bacon pizza - yummy. All from scratch by byte, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/byte\/8731796400\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm8.staticflickr.com\/7440\/8731796400_12eded7b4e_n.jpg?resize=320%2C320\" alt=\"I just got a homemade bacon pizza - yummy. All from scratch\" width=\"320\" height=\"320\" align=\"right\" hspace=\"5\" vspace=\"5\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a>I turned 29 on Sunday. Coincidentally it was Mother&#8217;s Day this year. I made sure I was home for the celebrations, having arrived back from Seoul on Saturday.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I feel incredibly lucky to be back to celebrate with my loved ones. It started with homemade kaya in the morning, a wonderful lunch at The Lobsterman (coincidentally the bill had 512 in it!), and a dinner that consisted of a couple of homemade pizzas. Sara is becoming a great chef.<\/p>\n<p>It didn&#8217;t quite hit me that this is my last of the twenties. This time next year I would have embarked on my thirties. I&#8217;ll think about that next year, but in the meantime, there are 365 days to be wonderful and amazing, right?<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday, Monday, I took some time to myself. I spent a significant amount of time in the gym. Followed by a great long swim to clear my mind. And a trip to the sauna. All in, using the facilities at the club to the fullest. It was invigorating to be able to do all that.<\/p>\n<p>Today I awoke at about 5.15am almost naturally. That says a lot. I might continue with a vigorous exercise regiment, without the need for excuses like &#8220;I have no time&#8221;. I might not. Who knows. All in, I&#8217;m reminded by the bit of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.urbandictionary.com\/define.php?term=pain+is+weakness+leaving+the+body\">propaganda<\/a>: pain is weakness leaving the body.<\/p>\n<p>But the remaining days till my thirtieth, I expect to be achieving the goals I set out for myself. They are tall orders some of them, but I think I&#8217;ve made relatively good progress in my twenties to achieve them. As humans we always set milestones, and like a politician, I&#8217;ve generally set 5-year marathons.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s to a great year ahead!<\/p>\n<div class=\"sharedaddy sd-sharing-enabled\"><div class=\"robots-nocontent sd-block sd-social sd-social-icon-text sd-sharing\"><h3 class=\"sd-title\">Share this:<\/h3><div class=\"sd-content\"><ul><li class=\"share-email\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-email sd-button share-icon\" href=\"mailto:?subject=%5BShared%20Post%5D%20Reflections%20on%20getting%20older&body=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.bytebot.net%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2013%2F05%2F13%2Freflections-on-getting-older&share=email\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to email a link to a friend\" data-email-share-error-title=\"Do you have email set up?\" data-email-share-error-text=\"If you&#039;re having problems sharing via email, you might not have email set up for your browser. 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